Nisshaa's Life

My best girlfriend, YES I FOUND HER💚 Having a best friend is so important as well how both value and inspire each other as human beings.  A friend,  A friend like her is rare,  It's one in million, Luck was playing in my path, One in million. It is truly blessings to be with her. I didn't notice time running as we both were really having fun, talking, running, haha all the fun things.  As someone who is disabled, it's not easy to hangout with people. I refuse to hangout in my past because there was no support or care given to me. And I'm someone try to do my things myself but I need help.  A true friend will understand that and do everything to comfort them. And @ahnooshwinnie18 is someone like that. My girl. My best friend 💚 I'm out despite my conditions because of her. Such a sweetheart, my gift.  Now I'm writing this to create awareness of friendship. It's important to have friends. More so if you're disabled don't be shy to make fri...

Mistakes are most important in life. Without them we will never learn. I know I sound like old grandma but yes this is what I learned. I cannot write like how I'm writing now. My English teacher gave a C for my English essay. I am not good in any language. Brain disorder.  I learned mostly to write when I entered my Master. I write everyday. I wanted to find my own voice in my writing. I didn't want to copy any authors. I read many books to improve my writing skills. I also don't know how to communicate effectively with others. I learned human psychology (took course on that) to understand others. But I learned more about myself than others. I enjoyed every details and information about brain. How our brain wired since we born and how our thoughts impacts the neurons or cells in our body. All these are so exciting for me to learned.  I sound like pathetic human. I experiment my own life. How I can impact others. Everything impacts others. I didn't know. I wa...

Relationship and disability  Many asked me about relationships and disability. Well let's talk about it.  What is a relationship? It's two people independently coming together to live their best version out. It's not an escape from loneliness. It's two people sharing happiness, joy, and love to each other. It's actually about yourself with another person. It reflects you like a mirror. You will learn more about yourself in a relationship. The other is there as a blessing to be a witness of your transformation. But many fail to understand this and it creates such chaos. Relationship is definitely it's not meant to fight or argue all day long😂  Relationships are already a big task for a normal able body. Being disabled while having a relationship is another whole story.  Can a disabled person have a relationship? Definitely can! And I think you should have! Because you will learn about others and so many beautiful values. As a disabled person I see th...