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Everything is temporary

Based on the title, I learned that everything is temporary.

We cannot assume someone is going to be ours forever. They might lose their love and interest towards us while the time goes. They might feel that they are done with us. Thus, they move on leaving us behind. We might think it's our fault but it's not. If they leave then it's not our fault. Let them go. We can't hold them back. We can try to keep them, but it won't last. Love and respect won't be the same.

We must be prepared for this separation. I know it going to hurt so bad but we must survive this. It's really nasty feelings. Feelings will make us ridiculous. Just be prepared for the worst. Everyone CHANGE. THEY change!! We human grow every day, change every day. We can't see the change until someone says to us. By this phenomena, I say everyone change. We cannot except anything from anyone.

Moral of the story:
Learn to love yourself ❤

Spent time with yourself.

Any activities: I always go shopping, read books, teach kids.

Spent time with your family more often.

Think about your carrier and work for it!

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  1. everyone forgets ah? Maybe the persons you see did that. Its true that we have to love ourself, the real moral of the story is dont expect any return when we love others or give anything to others. That always hurts and it never gone be same amount of love and care u put. When u feel that u want to care or love them , just do cause it gives u happiness but dont expect. But remember, there will be someone who will care and love u unconditionally, my personal advice is "Dont ever lose or miss them".

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